What to Wear to a Gender Reveal Party as a Guest (Plus What to Bring!)

A thoughtful, style-packed guide by Baby Riddle

Whether it’s your sister, your childhood bestie, or a coworker, showing up feeling put-together, but still comfy, is totally doable. Gender reveals live somewhere between laid-back backyard BBQ and sweet sentimental celebration. It’s not a black-tie affair, but it’s also not sweatpants-and-go, either.

So, if you’re wondering what to wear to a gender reveal party as a guest, or what to bring, I’ve got you. I’ll walk you through what’s worked for me, the mistakes I’ve learned from (like heels on wet grass), and a few gift ideas that go beyond the basic diaper pack.

What Do You Wear to a Gender Reveal Party?

Let’s start with the basics: what do you wear to a gender reveal party? The answer depends on the season, setting, and how well you know the parents-to-be. 

Honestly, I like to think of it as “casual cute.” Nothing too fancy, but definitely picture-worthy (because yes, there will be photos and possibly a confetti cannon moment you’ll want to rewatch later). 

Here’s what I keep in mind:

1. Think "Casual Cute."

My go-to? A soft midi dress or a romper I can move in. Bonus if it’s flowy enough to hide the food baby I grow by dessert. Think sundresses, jumpsuits, chinos with a nice top, or a seasonal sweater and jeans. Stay away from anything too formal or ultra-loungey. My husband usually throws on khakis and a polo and calls it a day.

2. Stick to the theme if there is one.

I’ve been to a “Team He or Team She” baseball-themed gender reveals and a coastal one with all neutrals. When in doubt, I ask the host what vibe they’re going for and then aim for something fun but not over-the-top.

3. Avoid gender-colored statements unless asked.

Unless the invite says, “vote with your outfit,” I like to keep things neutral: soft blushes, creams, muted florals, or pastels. I once showed up in hot pink to a green-and-white garden party gender reveal… never again.

4. Choose comfort over chaos.

If I’m chasing my toddler or sitting cross-legged on a picnic blanket, I want shoes that won’t betray me. Sandals, flats, or boots (in the colder months) are my go-tos.

Pro Tip: If you’re attending a summer backyard gender reveal, pair a flowy midi dress with comfy sandals. For a fall indoor reveal, try a knit top with dark jeans and ankle boots. And if you're pregnant yourself, go stretchy. Always stretchy.

What to Wear to a Gender Reveal as a Guest: Outfit Inspiration

Here are real-life outfit suggestions from gender reveal parties I’ve been to by vibe, season, and setting; whether you're wondering what to wear to a gender reveal party in summer or winter, you'll find options that fit:

What to Bring to a Gender Reveal Party as a Guest

Once your outfit’s picked, the next big question is: what to bring to a gender reveal party as a guest? I used to wonder if I had to bring something, and the answer is no, but if you want to, a small, thoughtful gift goes a long way. 

Here’s what I’ve brought (or wish I had):

1. A Small Gift or Token

While it’s not a baby shower, it’s still a celebration! Some sweet gift ideas include:

• A neutral onesie or bib set
• A storybook for baby 

• A plush toy or stuffed animals

Or go big with a Lux Gender Reveal Gift Box, especially if you’re a close friend or relative.

2. Something for the Activity or Décor

Sometimes I’ve helped with the fun, especially if I was asked to bring decorations, snacks, or supplies. A few cute ideas:

• Gender Reveal Confetti Cannons
• Boy or Girl Banner & Balloons
  
• Gender Reveal Poster with Voting Stickers

If the host asked for help, say yes, it’s a sweet way to be part of the moment. These thoughtful touches make your presence even more meaningful.

What to Give at a Gender Reveal Party

Guests often ask: what do you give for a gender reveal or what to give for a gender reveal party?

I’ve been to a handful of gender reveals now, and one thing I’ve learned is gifts don’t have to be big or elaborate to be meaningful.

Whether I’m close to the parents or just want to bring a thoughtful little something, I try to keep it simple, sweet, and actually useful. Here are a few of my go-to gift ideas:

What to Expect at a Gender Reveal Party

If this is your first gender reveal, you might be wondering what to expect at a gender reveal party. Here’s how most of mine have gone:

• Arrive, mingle, enjoy snacks or brunch.
  
• Guests vote or guess the gender using stickers, pins, or ballot boxes.
  
• Cue the countdown… then the gender reveal happens!
  
• Lots of hugs, laughter, and maybe even a few tears.
  
• Optional games, food, and more celebrating afterward.

Every gender reveal party’s a little different, but they’re usually casual, joyful, and full of love.

More Things to Take to a Gender Reveal Party as a Guest

If you’re still wondering what to take to a gender reveal party as a guest, here’s a quick checklist:

✅ Your outfit (comfy, festive, and appropriate)

✅ A small gift (neutral baby item, book, or keepsake)

✅ Card or note with well wishes

✅ Camera or phone for photos

✅ Optional: Gender reveal props or decor you were asked to bring

Frequently Asked Questions I’ve Asked (or Been Asked) About Gender Reveal Etiquette

Do you have to bring a gift to a gender reveal party?

Nope, but I usually bring a book, gender-neutral baby item, or a card. It just feels good to show up with a little something.

Is there a dress code for gender reveal parties?

Most are casual with a festive twist. Always check for a theme, and stick to comfy, photo-friendly outfits. Think “cute but cozy” if you’re unsure what do you wear to a gender reveal party.

Can you bring kids to a gender reveal party?

Most of the time, yes. Unless otherwise noted, most gender reveals are kid-friendly! I bring snacks, a toy, and a quick pep talk about not touching the cake early. Learned that one the hard way. 

Should I wear pink or blue to a gender reveal party?

Only if the invite requests it. Otherwise, go for neutrals or pastels and join the team-vote fun when you arrive.

What if I can’t attend; should I still send something?

Absolutely. A sweet message, mailed card, or digital gift card still means a lot. It’s about celebrating from wherever you are.

Celebrate with Confidence

Figuring out what to wear to a gender reveal party as a guest or what to bring to a gender reveal party as a guest doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Whether you’re a first-time guest or a seasoned partygoer, remembering the heart behind the day, love, surprise, and celebrating new life, is the best thing you can bring.

Explore Baby Riddle’s Gender Reveal Collection and New Arrivals to find outfits, gifts, and keepsakes that make showing up feel even more special.